Bloggie Wednesday: Reader Engagement (How To Get People Talking)

Bloggie Wednesday: Reader Engagement (How To Get People Talking)

Following last week’s Bloggie Wednesday topic on how to get more readers for your blog, I received great feedback from readers/bloggers who also found it difficult to get more readers for their blog. A reader, Veronica, posed a good question in the comments and I thought I’d continue the topic for today.

Can I make a request pretty please? How about how to engage and get people to comment on your blog? I know I get readers, but no-one wants to comment. I realise I am new to blogging, and most likely my posts or content aren’t exactly inviting people to post. But it would still be good to hear from an experienced blogger on how you overcame this hurdle (if it was one).

Now that I’ve gotten readers to my blog, how on earth do I get them to comment? How to I get them talking? Why is no one talking??

See, I’m naturally a talkative person. I like to talk (first day at school and I was already told off by the teacher for talking too much!) and even on the blog, I like interacting with people via the comments. But I can’t be talking to myself if no one wants to talk to me, right? No? Right, that’s why I have a blog, so that I can talk to myself! πŸ˜›

Okay, serious business here. I understand Veronica’s frustrations and trust me, I feel it too often. It’s mighty disheartening when I spend a lot of time researching and writing something I thought would be a fantastic piece people would really enjoy, only to find that I received all but 2 comments on the post. I can’t help but doubt myself and wonder if it’s just me. Most of the time, yes it’s just me.

It’s still a learning process for me and I’m still trying to get more people to comment but I’ve learned a few things along the way and thought I might share them with you.

People talk more on social media

Back in the day when social media wasn’t very big, the main way we engaged with our readers was via the blog. I wrote something, you left a comment on the post, I replied your comment and so on. We struck up a conversation via my post and your comments. These days, with Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, Tumblr, etc, reader engagement is no longer confined to the blog. Your reach is no longer just through the blog but via all these extra socia media platforms that represent your blog. In fact, you can now go as far and as wide as your tweets, Facebook updates, Instagrammed pictures, Tumblr-ed words, etc can go!

When you post an update on any of your social media platforms on your latest blog post, you may get retweets on Twitter, likes on Facebook and Instagram, comments via Twitter and Facebook and so on. Those are also considered as part of reader engagement. They’re engaging with you the easiest way they can, especially when they’re on the go and it’s not easy to leave the comment directly on your blog.

If I get a comment on Twitter or Facebook about a post I’ve written, that’s great. I’m already engaging with people on what I’ve written regardless of which platform that comment was actually delivered. It doesn’t matter so much if I don’t get as many comments as I hoped on the blog because I’m engaging with readers where they’re mostly at, and that’s on social media. Whatever works for them works for me too.

Ask questions!

Now that there are more ways than one to communicate and engage with your readers, how do you get them talking? When I’m writing something, I find it helpful to get people talking (y’know me, I need to talk! :P) is to ask questions at the end of the post. Have they tried that particular product you’ve reviewed? Did they like it or hate it? Did they find the product as good/bad as you found it? Do they think the product is affordable or too expensive?

Those are just a few examples on product reviews. Another one would be to ask a question to your readers on something YOU cannot solve. Perhaps you’ve stuck on something and cannot resolve the problem. Your readers may be able to help. Or a reader has a problem and if he/she doesn’t mind you sharing that problem on the blog, perhaps other readers may be able to help too.

This doesn’t just have to be on the blog. Try it out on Twitter or Facebook too. I find that Facebook works better for this as it shows the entire conversation at one go instead of having to trail it on Twitter.

Have an opinion?

A surefire way to get people talking is to write opinion pieces that may also be quite controversial. This, I know, will guarantee comments because people will either agree with you or shoot you down. Do tread very carefully on this though because you can either draw people to your blog or turn them off. A certain unnamed very popular Australian blog does just this and it came to a point where the blogger has a big group of supporters AND haters. You will need a thick skin to tackle the comments that come in via opinion pieces. As I don’t have thick skin (only a thick waist), I do this only once a year. πŸ˜›

Reader engagement is not just on one platform which is your blog anymore. Thanks to social media, you can engage with your readers anywhere now and even better when you’re on the go. When you’re talking to your followers on Facebook, you’re engaging with them. When you’re in a tweeting conversation with your tweeple, you’re also engaging with them. So don’t worry if you don’t get much comments on your blog alone because in the grander scheme of things, when they leave comments and reply your questions wherever it may be, you’ve already gotten them talking.

Do you feel disheartened at the lack of comments on your blog too? Was there anything you did that pushed you out of that no-comments rut and got people talking? What’s this magic you’re spinning? πŸ˜‰

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27 comments… add one
  1. Fiona

    I feel you. I am a talkative person on the blog and in person too. Before I started a Facebook page for the blog, readers would comment in the blog more often. After I started with FB I notice that my reader’s engagement in Facebook is more than the blog itself. That also got me thinking. Commenting in FB is much more easier than a blog as they need not to enter Name, Email and URL. Lately I’m also wondering perhaps I should cut down on FB haha. Maybe I’m experiencing an opposite reaction comparing with other bloggers πŸ˜›
    Fiona recently posted..Men vs Women: Who Do You Think Is Messier?My Profile

    1. Paris B

      I find that’s very true. Some bloggers I know are puzzled that they have hundreds of comments on Instagram but none on their blog! Sometimes, spreading ourselves too thin can impact on the blog too πŸ˜‰
      Paris B recently posted..When planning a summer mix holiday, put Panama and Capri on your list even if they’re just Diorblush Cheek CremesMy Profile

      1. Tine

        Oh I know, right? I see a lot of comments on Instagram too but it’s sound of crickets on blogs. I find this very apparent on very popular fashion blogs. Heaps of comments on social media but almost none of the blog.

      2. Fiona

        You are so right. Will try not to spread myself too thin now hehe πŸ™‚
        Fiona recently posted..Media Preview: Neesyaβ„’ Skincare Range of Beauty Products, Assuring Users Skin That Shines From Within In Just 14 DaysMy Profile

    2. Tine

      Exactly. Some platforms are just easier to comment on. E.g. I can just click on Reply on Twitter or Facebook rather than having to type Name, Email and URL on the blog. Even more so when I’m on the go instead of at my desk!

      Nah, don’t cut down. Why would you? Comments are comments. It’s great communication with your readers. Who cares where they’re doing it? πŸ˜‰

      1. Fiona

        Facebook is more to spread instant news or updates and even promotion that I spot. So I guess readers are used to stalk in Facebook haha. You are right too. Who cares πŸ™‚
        Fiona recently posted..Media Preview: Neesyaβ„’ Skincare Range of Beauty Products, Assuring Users Skin That Shines From Within In Just 14 DaysMy Profile

  2. Allison

    I love both Veronica’s initial question, Fiona’s reply about comments on Facebook, and your upbeat post on getting readers to comment. I had to laugh because this was the question I had intended to pose to you today. Thank you and Veronica for reading my mind. Some of my subscribers have told me that they wanted to comment but couldn’t figure out how to do it – and I don’t use Discus or Livefyre, just the plain old Wordpress comment box! I’ve tried posing questions at the end of posts, and it hasn’t made any difference (maybe I’m not asking the right questions!). Actually, I was thinking about doing a post asking readers why they aren’t commenting lol. I thought using CommentLuv would help but it seems to attract that “bloggers” who are selling things. Nevertheless, I’m not giving up. And like you said, Tine, I’ll take a comment wherever it comes on all the social media options πŸ˜‰
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    1. Fiona

      I’m also still using the standard Wordpress comment box because there’s a bug in my old template that doesn’t allow me installing CommentLuv properly lol!
      I have readers telling me it’s troublesome to comment in the blog πŸ™ while some doesn’t know how to do it.
      Fiona recently posted..Men vs Women: Who Do You Think Is Messier?My Profile

    2. Tine

      I don’t use any other commenting platform other than what Wordpress offers and I think it’s more than adequate. I’ve experienced Discus and Lifefyre on other blogs and more often than not, I find them laggy especially on mobile sites.

      Asking your readers why they aren’t commenting and what they think you can do better is a great idea. Yeah Commentluv is spammy! I find that I get a lot of cheeky link inserts that are obviously spammy. So I keep the comment but remove the Luv (you can do it via Comments) πŸ˜›

      Don’t give up! Things will get better. πŸ™‚ x

      1. Allison

        Thanks, Tine and Fiona, I’ll crack the code…or not…one day! In fact, I just got a comment from a blogger from Australia this morning πŸ™‚ And yes, I’ve discovered that I can turn off CommentLuv on the spammy comments; makes me feel so powerful
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  3. Karen C

    Hi Tine,

    Love reading your blog – even if I don’t always comment!

    Have you seen the Australian BlogStar Awards?
    Entry closes midnight Monday 15th July 2013 – here’s the link on the beauty heaven website if you’re interested.

    http://www.beautyheaven.com.au/make-up/lips-lipstick-lip-gloss-lip-balm/blogstar-2013-11176

    1. Tine

      Thanks Karen πŸ™‚ Thanks for the link and yes I did! I didn’t know about it until I saw it on beautyheaven’s Instagram yesterday. I don’t win stuff like this but I entered anyway. Why not? I might strike jackpot someday πŸ˜›

  4. Paris B

    Good topic Tine πŸ™‚ Talked about it once before and you’re right, its a bit strange how some blogs get the comments and some others (huge ones I might add) don’t. One thing I’ve found is to get that ol’ comment link nice and BIG. If people don’t see it, they won’t comment. Simple as that. Also, I find people comment more or engage more when they can relate and have something to share as well. People want to talk, but they must know that they can, and that they have an avenue πŸ™‚
    Paris B recently posted..When planning a summer mix holiday, put Panama and Capri on your list even if they’re just Diorblush Cheek CremesMy Profile

    1. Tine

      I noticed that too. The more comments a post gets, the more it encourages other people to join in. I’m actually more inclined to join in the conversation too if I see big numbers. Although if the blogger never replies (notice a lot don’t), then I don’t bother. Not going to be a one way street if I don’t hear back from you πŸ˜›

      1. Bugs

        Yup, if it is a one way street comment thingy, then I would think of reasons for not commenting rather than what to comment.

        1. Tine

          My sentiments exactly, Bugs.

  5. Lisa

    hey Tine, I found that joining blog linkups helped get people to my blog but now realise that other bloggers feel they have to comment so it will be reversed. i.e.. I will then comment on their blog. I mainly get other bloggers & friends commenting on my blog yet my stats say there are readers who are out there but don’t comment. I have decided to just be happy with 1 or 2 comments per post if I am lucky. Also if bloggers count the feedback from social media, then they should consider that a comment too. I get heaps more feedback about my blog on twitter & Facebook, than I would on my blog itself.
    Lisa recently posted..How did you meet your spouse?My Profile

    1. Tine

      That’s great engagement with readers when you get a lot of feedback and comments on your Twitter and Facebook. These days, it’s not just comments on the blog that count anymore. Bring social media in and you’ll see a big leap.

  6. Micky

    Great tips!! Thank you so much, not only for today’s post, but for all the Bloggie Wednesday!!! I too have a blog and more often than not I ask a question in the end of the post. Honestly it doesn’t work much for me… And I also tried the controversial opinion post and meh, it didn’t work much either. I guess I’ll just have to be more creative hehehe <3
    Micky recently posted..Novidades – Urban Decay Revolution LipstickMy Profile

    1. Tine

      My pleasure, Micky. So glad you enjoy Bloggie Wednesdays πŸ™‚ I did controversial posts at a time and it isn’t easy. On the other hand, it did create a big discussing amongst my readers which is great. Most were very adult about it and we can agree to disagree.

      For blog posts and reader engagement, some experimenting needs to be done to see what works for you. I hope you hit your reader engagement jackpot soon! πŸ™‚

  7. Veronica

    Thank you so much Tine for doing this post – it’s brilliant! Much appreciate it πŸ™‚

    Sorry I’m late to the party – it’s been two hectic days and just catching-up. Oh well, looks like I need to play more on social media (amongst other things!) πŸ˜‰
    Veronica recently posted..Photoshoot – Old School Hollywood – Exhibition to Support McGrath FoundationMy Profile

    1. Tine

      Not a problem, thanks for the topic inspiration. It’s something a lot of us like to know too πŸ™‚

  8. Sarah

    Hi Tine! This is such a good and relevant topic (not that any of your posts are irrelevant but you know what I mean! :)).

    I always ask people a Q, and deliberately write in a conversational style. I enjoy writing in this style because it is fun and a real contrast to my day job in which a formal style is required. πŸ™‚

    This seems to work for me!

    The only other comment I’d make is that to new bloggers “patience, grasshopper”. There are so many blogs and it takes a bit of time for people to find you, to read you, and to feel confident to comment. Many moons ago prior to me having a blog I was reluctant to comment because I felt it would be unlikely that the blogger would have time to read or respond. (So I always reply to comments as do you! :))
    Sarah recently posted..EVENT | The Laser Lounge (West Lakes) turned my frown upside down!My Profile

    1. Tine

      Ding ding ding! Nail on the head, Sarah! It takes a lot of patience and time, something sadly some new bloggers do not have. Not all of us are going to be Susie Bubbles or Tevi Gevinson but with time and hard work, we can get halfway there πŸ™‚ x

  9. Friska

    This has been a frustrating issue for me too! As a newbie to the blogging world, I try to write in a conversational tone and ask questions, but like a previous entry said – perhaps not the right sort of questions.

    Hubby’s always said patience wasn’t a virtue of mine – LOL. It’s disheartening too when you receive a negative comment, and everyone that I’ve spoken to feels it was uncalled for – yet they don’t comment their thoughts either. Gahhh!!!

    The ease and accessibility of Facebook commenting is why I get more ‘thumbs up’ on postings and comments too, and with blog comments people have to ‘confirm’ too – yet another step that the time-poor just don’t want to be burdened with.

    Friends were commenting personally to me on Facebook – until I asked them to please help me out and leave their valuable precious comments on the blog! Goes to show. Sometimes all you have to do is ask πŸ™‚
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    1. Tine

      Haha good one! Ask them to comment! My friends who are bloggers themselves do comment but the ones who aren’t seldom do. I really should shoot them an email and break out the friendship code or something. “Thou shalt leave comments on thy good friend’s blog” πŸ˜›

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